In a remarkable tale of resilience and love, Dejana Backo, a woman born without limbs, has defied the odds and embraced the journey of motherhood with courage and grace. Despite the challenges she faces, Dejana has never allowed her condition to hinder her zest for life, finding unique solutions to everyday tasks and inspiring millions with her unwavering spirit.
Just four months ago, Dejana, along with her partner Marko Nezic, joyously welcomed their baby daughter, Lara, into the world. Since Lara’s arrival, Dejana has been sharing candid videos of her life as a mom on TikTok (@marko_dejana), offering glimpses into the struggles and triumphs of parenthood.
“It was not easy in the beginning,” Dejana shares. “I wanted to pick up our baby so badly by myself, but I could not do it. However, now that Lara is four months old, I find it easier to do things, such as getting her from her bed and putting her into chairs. Her neck is now stronger, and she is also growing up so fast.”
Despite being born without arms, Dejana has found alternative ways to perform tasks that other parents might take for granted, such as feeding and dressing their child. Using her feet for many tasks, including making a bottle and even taking Lara out of her crib, Dejana demonstrates a remarkable level of adaptability and determination.
In one video, Dejana showcases how she puts Lara into a baby carrier using just her feet, emphasizing her commitment to learning “everything she needs to learn” for her daughter’s sake. She also utilizes her chin and shoulder to open items and performs tasks with her fingers and hands.
While some activities pose challenges, such as cooking, Dejana and Marko have found ways to adapt and make life a bit easier. They receive assistance with household chores and have a lady who helps with Lara for two hours a day, especially in the evenings.
Before becoming a mother, Dejana gained recognition on TikTok for her paintings, created using her feet. Now, she is overwhelmed by the positive messages about her parenting skills, with many calling her a “superwoman.” However, Dejana insists that their life is simply normal, and they are not doing anything special.
The emotional videos shared by Dejana on social media have resonated deeply with viewers, with many, including fellow parents, praising her for sharing her journey with them. From messages of admiration to expressions of gratitude, Dejana’s story serves as a beacon of inspiration and hope for all who encounter it.
In the face of adversity, Dejana’s resilience and determination shine brightly, proving that love knows no limits and that the human spirit is capable of overcoming any obstacle. As she navigates the joys and challenges of motherhood, Dejana’s journey stands as a testament to the power of love, courage, and unwavering determination.